Why didn’t they tell me transformations hurt as much as they help??

Everyone wants to be transformed, until they start to be transformed…lol

You can’t find healing without first finding pain. You can’t find your worth, without first telling yourself everyday for years, “I’m not enough.” You can’t hold on to less, if you’re searching for more.

Transforming beyond your “self” that you’ve known for years, people that you’ve hung onto for years, patterns that have held you back more than brought you forward, is hard. There isn’t another way to put it.

However, I know one thing is for sure. Staying the same, feeling those feelings of unworthiness, is MUCH harder than changing. Shifting is good for your soul. It’s growth that allows you to see beyond the world that you created from prior societal pressures, family obligations, and self inflicted identities.

If you’ve been asking yourself, “when will this feel better?”, rest assured that you’re almost breaking through.